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In a friend I found a soul mate :)





I asked google the meaning of "friendship, sisterhood, friend, soul mate", and it still did not give me the perfect words to describe this girl next to me. Then I tuned to the most reliable book in the Universe, The Holy Bible. I got the perfect scripture in the Old Testament Isaiah 58:11 "Where God guides He Provides".

I remember it was in the 90's - 2002 when I used to visit your home every Sunday after church, LITERALLY every Sunday. I guess my mom never liked her home hahaha now I see that her doings have jumped to me. We used to play with your cousins and friends in your neighborhood. I felt like I was a ITUMELENG too hahaha. Years later, we grew apart. I would see you just at church, but I always remembered our good times. Our seperation was not caused by any arguments, but Millicent left a big question mark (LOL).

I would always Pray to God, "Please provide me with friends that would understand me, not judge me, friends that I would grow with, travel with and learn from. Friends that match my characteristics that I would get along with. Friends I would have fun with". I believe that God wanted us to see other people before He could reunite us again. It was 2012 and God answered my Prayers, like always. That year was very intense (topic for another blogpost), I was discovering myself in so many ways and aspects. God was surfing my nest, He was rebuking dirt within my soul and He brought you back into my life. "Sometimes people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together", and this quote describes exactly what happened between us. We grew wiser, stronger and bolder. Remember our crazy times in 2012?? October 5 to be precise Hahahaha I still laugh thinking about that time and look at us now.

Tshenolo Itumeleng "Njaka", you have been the best best friend in the whole wide world. With you I believe in Prayers, because you just exactly what I prayed for in a friend/sisterhood/soul mate. You have a very sweet heart, bold character, straight forward personality, out going soul and a crazy sense of humor. I am not only fortunate but I am highly BLESSED to have you in my life. I love how I don't have to tell you all the time how much you mean to me and how much I LOVE YOU (I am not that type LOL) but I believe ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.



We took an oath of taking our sisterhood to the next LEVEL and you became my #TravelBuddy #Friendcation and ever since that year, that is all we think about "WHEN IS OUR NEXT VACATION"

Want to know whats the best gift too???? OUR BIRTHDAY IS THE SAME MONTH.... And want to know what else is cool about this duo???? OUR BIRTHDAY IS AFTER EACH OTHER..... The coolest EVER, which means SOFA'SLAHLANE :)




A BIG BIG THANK YOU MY DEAREST SOUL MATE FOR TOLERATING ME AND MY CRAZINESS. I APPRECIATE YOU SO MUCH EVEN IN YOUR ANNOYING TIMES, I STILL ADMIRE YOU VERY MUCH. YOU HAVE BEEN THE BEST SISTER I NEVER HAD. 

TO MORE GREAT FOND YEARS TO OUR SISTERHOOD....
(This got me teary I LOVE YOU)

#Blessed
#GodsFavour
#Friendship
#Sisterhood
#LoveLivesHere





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